Post by EMPATHY on Feb 7, 2010 6:26:44 GMT 1
There is a reason for everything. Sometimes the reason involves a sacrifice that we have to make. Sometimes its best when people get over disappointment and sadness because even if we are ok - we may not be able to be or do or act the way people want. Nor can we always do what they want or what is expected of us.
Sometimes its best to just try to understand that. Sometimes we have to be taken at our word and not question things - sometimes it can do more harm then good if we dont take things at face value.
Sometimes its best to be positive in the face of adversity - there may have been disappointment but best to have that disappointment then total loss. Be satisfied with what is left?
Try to accept things. External forces are far more powerful then 'me' revenge is pointless. Do not bang your heads against the wall about something that is done for a reason. There is more victory in understanding that then getting mad, upset or angry.